In the modern world fences are going up all over the place to keep people out. The southern border will soon have a fence on it to keep people out. This barrier is a two way barrier though. Many times we build fences to keep those who we love safe or “in”. This video shows how it might feel to be kept in.
Many times in our life we create “fences” to keep other people out. Sometimes we create those barriers without knowing. Does your attitude make people NOT want to “come in”?
How we show-up to other people can be read and can be devastating to our career. Many times without us knowing the affect we are having on other people. A negative attitude or even an over cautious attitude can show others we don’t have what it takes to reach new and higher levels in our lives and careers.
We can change the way we show-up by beginning a program of positive actions.
A great way to start is with our actions toward others. This will begin to help us with our reactions toward others, especially in stressful situations. Here are some great tools:
- Begin with a compliment. Everyone loves to be noticed. Start there.
- Approach every situation with a glass half full attitude.
- Commit to being the positive person in your circle.
- Remove as many NEGATIVE people from your sphere of influence.
- Begin every day with a personal affirmation that ROCKS.
As you grow more confident in this technique you will find that you attract a completely different type of individual. Make an effort to work on this daily and you will see results begin to pour into your life.
You only have control of you. Make it the best you, you can.
I am POSITIVE you can do it.
Rob Wheeler
Eternal Optimist
